Hello loves, how are you today?

Today I want to talk about a few quick fixes to create a calmer home when living with chronic illness.

When we’re living with a chronic illness we often have to make choices about what we prioritise. When I was really sick I would use paper cups, plastic cutlery, and eat ready meals straight from the container. It meant that everything went straight in the bin, significantly reducing the time I spent in the kitchen. No meal prep, and no loading or unloading the dishwasher. Was it more expensive financially, yes, but not compared to the savings in time and energy. It meant that I could use the little energy I had to keep the critical areas of my home clean and tidy. I used, and still use, clutter bags. Those bags that you can buy from the supermarket from around 70p. I have different bags for each room, and then when I’ve tidied the space I’m in, the bags slowly find their way to the correct room as I move around the house.

Clutter creates mental burden and stress because our brains are constantly processing visual information from our surroundings. 

When we’re surrounded by disorganised items, our minds struggle to focus and relax, leading to increased anxiety and feeling overwhelmed. Research has shown that cluttered environments can elevate cortisol, the stress hormone, throughout the day.

It impacts our productivity and efficiency significantly. When we can’t find what we need quickly, we waste time searching through piles of belongings, which can be frustrating when we’re already running late or trying to complete tasks. This daily friction adds up and can make even simple activities feel exhausting.

Clutter affects our emotional wellbeing and can contribute to feelings of guilt or shame. Many people feel embarrassed about their cluttered spaces and avoid inviting others over, which can lead to social isolation. There’s also often guilt about wasted money on forgotten purchases or items we meant to use, but never did. We can also feel out of control when chaos increases around us.

Physical clutter can also increase the risk of trips and falls. Even before I got sick I was pretty good at tripping over air, and once broke my little toe on my sofa because of leg spasms. Add to that the orthostatic hypotension and dizziness, keeping my home clear of clutter was very important. It can also make cleaning more difficult, potentially leading to dust accumulation and poorer air quality, which may aggravate allergies or respiratory conditions.

Tackling clutter when you’re exhausted feels impossible. 

That’s where the guilt spiral starts: “I should be able to keep my home tidy. Everyone else manages. What’s wrong with me?” Nothing is wrong with you. You’re just playing a different game with different rules. So what if, instead of trying to do it “properly,” we focused on doing it in a way that actually works for our bodies and our energy levels? What if clearing one surface was enough? What if clutter bags were a valid system? What if paper cups were self-care?

So, a few quick fixes to create a calmer home when living with chronic illness. Let’s keep this practical and doable. I’m not asking you to deep-clean your entire home or Marie Kondo your life. I’m asking you to pick ONE (yes, just one) of these quick fixes and do it today:

Choose your own adventure:

1. Clear a surface – Pick one table, worktop, sofa, or your sinks and loo. Just one. Clear it completely.
2. The mug collection – Gather any mugs or dishes scattered around and take them to the kitchen. That’s it. You don’t have to wash them.
3. The clutter bag– Get a shopping bag and gather clutter from one room. Label it if you’re feeling fancy. Put it somewhere out of sight to sort later (or never—no judgement).
4. Shoe shuffle – Put all the shoes away. Every. Single. One. It makes such a difference.
5. Cosy corners – Fold the blankets or throws on your sofa and tidy the cushions. Instant calm.
6. Bed smoothing – You don’t need to “make” your bed properly. Just smooth the sheets and shake out the duvet. 30 seconds, maximum.
7. High-traffic sweep – Quickly sweep or vacuum just the areas you walk through most. Ignore everywhere else.
8. Let the light in – Open your blinds and curtains fully. It’s amazing what natural light does for our mood.
9. Switch the harsh lights off – If you have overhead lights that feel too bright, turn them off. Use lamps instead. Softer lighting = calmer space.
10. Fresh air moment – Open one window for 5-10 minutes. Even in winter. Even if it’s raining. Fresh air resets everything.
11. The tea ceremony – Make yourself a proper cup of tea or coffee. Not while doing something else. Sit down. Savour it. Watch the world go by.
12. Scent reset – Spray something lovely around a room. Fresh linen, lavender, whatever makes you smile. Scent is powerful.
13. Three deep breaths – Stand by your window. Take three slow, deep breaths. Notice what’s happening outside. That’s it.

Pick ONE. Just one. That’s all you need to do today.

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And remember, you are worth it, and you get to choose.

Have a lovely day.